Desiderata

Desiderata
by Max Ehrmann

Go placidly amid the noise and haste,
and remember what peace there may be in silence.

As far as possible, without surrender,
be on good terms with all persons.
Speak your truth quietly and clearly;
and listen to others, even dull and ignorant;
they too have their story.

Avoid loud and aggressive persons;
they are vexations to the spirit.
If you compare yourself with others,
you may become vain and bitter;
for always there will be greater
and lesser persons than yourself.

Enjoy your achievements as well as your plans.
Keep interested in your own career, however humble;
it is a real possession in the changing fortunes of time.
Exercise caution in your business affairs;
for the world is full of trickery.

But let this not blind you to what virtue there is;
many persons strive for high ideals;
and everywhere life is full of heroism.

Be yourself. Especially, do not feign affection.
Neither be cynical about love for in the
face of all aridity and disenchantment
it is perennial as the grass.

Take kindly the counsel of the years,
gracefully surrendering the things of youth.
Nurture strength of spirit to shield you in
sudden misfortune. But do not distress yourself
with imaginings. Many fears are born of fatigue
and loneliness. Beyond a wholesome discipline,
be gentle with yourself.

You are a child of the universe,
no less than the trees and the stars;
you have a right to be here.
And whether or not it is clear to you,
no doubt the universe is unfolding as it should.

Therefore be at peace with God,
whatever you conceive Him to be,
and whatever your labors and aspirations,
in the noisy confusion of life,
keep peace with your soul.

With all its shams, drudgery,
and broken dreams,
it is still a beautiful world.

Strive to be happy.

Companion Ponies

I can't tell you too much about the Shetland pony named Little Katie and how she saved the life of a giant Hanoverian gelding named Nick, because their complete story is told in the sequel to my middle grade novel, The Tugboat Chronicles. But I want to make a point about the value of companion ponies, and show how there really is a job for any horse.

For a variety of reasons, Nick, a former event horse, was in a deep depression when I first met him. He was a mere shell of the one time gorgeous 17H show horse, and lived in a stall by himself.

Little Katie is a tiny Shetland pony whose career has been spent meeting children in classrooms, making nursing home visits, and keeping lonesome horses company. Little Katie is so small she could walk right underneath Nick without her back brushing against his belly. But when we decided to put the two of them together in the same stall, Nick's life turned around and he slowly began to get better.

I have a friend who donated her un-ridable horse to a hunt club who put his quiet nature to good use teaching the hound puppies how to manage themselves around a horse. Another person donated her horse to a therapeutic riding program, and he is now giving intellectually challenged kids and adults the opportunity to explore the world of horses. And yet another well loved barrel racer whose leg injury meant she could never be ridden again, went to live in the backyard of a wheelchair bound former equestrian as her companion.

Peoples spirits are lifted, lives are changed, hope is regained and loneliness abated by the presence of a horse or a pony. Other horses who need companions make faster recoveries when allowed to live as nature intended, in the company of other equines. Although it might take a little time to find just the right place for a horse in need of a new job or place to retire, there are opportunities out there.

If you aren't sure how to find a home for your horse, start by contacting your state university agriculture department. If your community has a therapeutic riding program, find out if they are in need of horses. Or, type "where to donate a horse" into a search engine and you will have hundreds of organizations to contact.

A good resource for information and to be sure you are donating your horse to a reputable organization is the Equine Protection Network. Another favorite is Habitat for Horses, sponsored in part by Willie Nelson and his daughter, Amy.

Vote "YES" on Question 2 in Maryland!

It feels like the equestrian industry in Maryland is standing on the edge of a cliff, waiting for Tuesday's election to know whether or not to jump. Already so many Marylander's travel to Delaware, West Virginia and other states to spend their money at the horse races, because those states have slots.

It's pretty simple: no slots, no racetracks, no Preakness, no flourishing horse businesses in Maryland. The horses will go away.

By voting "Yes" to Question 2, the horse racing industry in Maryland will be revitalized, and 55% of the money the state gets from the income of the slot machines will poor into our school systems.

Please, if you live in Maryland and can vote, vote "YES" on Tuesday, November 4th!

Good Decisions

It was the right decision to move my bedroom into the closet. This morning I rose early, couldn't wait to get to the computer and start writing again.

Today is one of those perfect October days one dreams about all summer. It is still too chilly to prop open the window of my new office, but I am surrounded by the colors of autumn outside.
The red maple is going to be stunning within just a few days. Peach and Scout, my two lovely golden retrievers, watched from their fenced in yard as pheasants rose from the tall grassy fields just a few moments ago, the male screeching as his wings beat against the wind.

It is the kind of day when one buys a pumpkin, but I wouldn't have known from my old office downstairs. I wouldn't have been part of it in that cold, fluorescent room. Yes, it was the right decision to live in the closet for now, while I finish my book.

In The Interest of Writing a Middle Grade Novel

Well I suppose I am officially eccentric/crazy/just-plain-weird as of today. I have moved my bedroom into my closet.

Why? Well, two reasons: One, my head hurts at the end of each day after working on a computer for 8 hours under fluorescent lighting at my office. Consequently, when I get home I am in no mood to go back to the computer under more fluorescent lighting, in a room with one small window, dark paneled walls and a tile floor. I haven't written anything in over a month, and I am so close to finishing my novel, I had to move my desk and computer upstairs into my old bedroom with its wall of windows facing the fields and woods out back. It is a beautiful, serene, and sunlight filled view and its just plain and simply better for the juju.

So I don't appear certifiable, you should know my "closet" was probably a nursery when the house was built almost 100 years ago, so it is big enough for my double bed, tv, table, etc. Its actually kind of cozy, complete with the slanted ceilings of a Cape Cod and a mini closet, too.

A fun fact about MD history: when this house was built, a persons home was taxed according to how many closets it had, not bedrooms. Hmmm.

#2 reason is because, being able to say that I "lived in a closet" while finishing my blockbuster pony novel adds a bit of color to my bio when I am a rich and famous author of The Tugboat Chronicles, right? Always have to plan ahead! :-)

Say "No" To Horse Slaughter!

The subject of horse slaughter in America, or transport of horses to slaughter in other countries, is one that will make most horse lover's blood boil. There are many people who are working hard to get laws passed to protect horses in our country from ending their life in this tragic and disrespectful way. Progress is being made, bit by bit, by people who work hard for this cause.

It is sad to know that many of the horses sent to slaughter houses were once beautiful, athletic racehorses who ran their hearts out to make a few dollars for their owners and trainers. Unfortunately, sending a horse off to an auction known to sell to slaughter houses doesn't bother many of these people. Their horses are part of a business for profit, and when they aren't useful anymore, the owners/trainers don't care what happens to them.

Country music legend Willie Nelson has spoken publicly against horse slaughter, and actively supports the Habitat for Horses equine rescue. His daughter, Amy Nelson, has made it her life's mission to get a bill passed in Congress that would make it illegal to transport, sell, deliver, or export horses for slaughter.

But the way to make a change happen doesn't only take place in Washington. It must also come from the hearts of people who can, and are willing to, make a difference.

Suffolk Downs Racetrack outside Boston, MA, has taken a stand, and made the brave decision to ban trainers from its track if they sell a horse for slaughter. This is especially significant because this operation is in the midst of a Phoenix-like rebirth ~ financed by one of the tracks partners, Richard Fields ~ and is banking on trainers flocking to the newly refurbished track in droves.

But a risky move like this, to say "Come to my track and race, but only if you treat your horses with the dignity they deserve," is a policy that might very well change the way racetracks operate in the future. Already one of the country's most well known trainers, Nick Zito, has agreed to bring his horses to the track in part because he supports this policy.

My thought when I first read about Richard Fields and Sam Elliott, Suffolk's vice president for racing, was "Finally!" Thank God someone has the guts to take a stand! Someone has the heart, as well as the power, to turn the tide and begin to make a difference! It is the brave move by a couple of mavericks with heart. And now, let's see who is gutsy enough, who has the courage and decency to follow their lead. Personally, I'm banking on the trickle down effect.

The more publicity this policy gets, the more tracks that may follow this remarkable example of true horsemanship. The more noise made in Washington, the closer we come to horse slaughter being a thing of the past. When people take the first step, as Richard Fields, Sam Elliott, Willie and Amy Nelson have done, it is easier for others to follow. Hopefully this will happen.

But even if it doesn't, even if only a handful of horses are saved from a desperate ending to a life in which they gave all they had, well that's a pretty remarkable beginning. My hat is off to you all! Thank you for making a difference.

For more information about how you can help support Habitat for Horses, see my August 18th blog by clicking here.

Related links:
* Suffolk Downs new policy
* Habitat for Horses web site
* Trainer Nick Zito's support of the ban
* Richard Fields philanthropy
* Willie Nelson's web site

History of Dressage

Years ago I heard the father of one of my students say that watching his daughter ride dressage was like watching paint dry. Not one to let a teaching opportunity slip past me, I asked him if he knew the origins of dressage, and if he understood what the point was, and where it's place was in both military and equestrian history. Of course, he looked at me dumbfounded like he'd been caught making a sexist comment in front of a feminist. I may not be a "classic feminist", but I do understand and appreciate the benefits of dressage training.

Over two thousand years ago the ancient Greeks knew that in order to use their horses to their best advantage in battle, they must be in perfect condition, and be completely obedient to the will of the rider. The soldiers lives depended on it.

With their appreciation for the laws of nature and physics, the Greeks knew they had to be able to use the horse's natural athletic abilities to move quickly from side to side, to dodge a sword swung in their direction, to jump from one place to another, to change direction in an instant, to halt, then burst forth at full speed without any challenges or hesitation from their mounts. And they needed to be able to accomplish this with the simple shifting of a seat bone, the tightening of a calf muscle, or the closing of one finger on the reins. The first published papers on this type of training came from the Greek Commander Xenophon, born in 430 BC. See http://horsemanship.suite101.com/article.cfm/xenophons_the_art_of_horsemanship

The movements that we see today in dressage competitions come from these same military maneuvers. It is an exacting science, and one that only years of training result in the desired precision of movement. All other disciplines of riding, whether jumping, barrel racing, polo, reining or pleasure riding, benefit from dressage training.

A horse that is schooled in dressage will be more supple, will use it's own body more naturally in collection, will develop stronger muscles, healthier heart and lungs, and be more obedient to the rider. Any horse, whether one involved in some sort of competition, or your trail horse you canter through the woods, will be a better mount, and will be more athletic, with even a very basic level of dressage training.

If you want to see what this looks like in person, and get a better understanding why it was so important to the military, I recommend spending an evening at Medieval Times (www.medievaltimes.com) You will enjoy a dinner worthy of any Middle Age court, and see competitions and demonstrations of such magnificent movements as piaffes, tempi changes, passage, half-pass and pirouettes.

For more detailed information about dressage, go to http://www.usdf.org/about/about-dressage/history.asp or http://www.schumachersporthorses.com/history_of_dressage.htm. These web sites will give you a lot of valuable information about the important history and use of dressage in today's equestrian sports.

Oh and that Dad? He started taking riding lessons the next week, and today owns a small farmette where he keeps his own stable of horses.

Show Jumpers vs. Show Hunters, Part II

My niece told me that the two sides of her family were very different: Her Dad's side reminded her of the very "proper" British family, while her Mom's side reminded her of the typical boisterous Irish clan. The difference between show hunters and show jumpers can be compared in somewhat similar ways.

Show hunters, as discussed, have a more polished, quiet and refined manner, and the judging in the ring is very subjective. Not so the very agile, energetic and animated show jumpers. A show jumper will be more elevated, or "up" in front end, and powerful hindquarters should be placed well under its body to help it through tight turns and over larger jumps. Show jumpers tend to be a little more "hot-tempered" than a hunter, as they need the extra boost of enthusiasm to get through the tricky and difficult courses.

The most common myth about show jumpers is that "it's all about speed." Yes, the horse with the best time wins. But it isn't because they were the fastest; it is because they were the most athletic, and their speed combined with the ability to stay focused and respond instantly to the rider's aids while jumping at high speed led them to a clean round with the best time. So speed alone doesn't do it.

Show jumpers are guided over a course of very colorful, elaborate obstacles and are judged on time and faults. There is nothing about the way they look that makes a difference in their final placing, unless it results in a fault. For instance, a horse that hangs his front legs down and doesn't tuck them under his chest, might knock a rail down, which results in 4 faults off their final score. Other faults come from a refusal or run out, circling across his own path (considered a refusal), or going over the maximum time allowed.

Show jumping is one of the flashiest of the Olympic sports. A modified version of show jumping called "stadium jumping," is one phase of eventing competitions (the other two being the dressage phase, and the most popular cross-country courses). Both show hunters and show jumpers will always benefit from the discipline and athleticism that comes from dressage training.

What exactly is dressage? Stay tuned! That's next!

The Difference Between Hunters and Jumpers: Part I

If I've heard it once, I've heard it a thousand times: People mistakenly clump the two types of show horses together and believe that hunters and jumpers are one in the same. I'm sure there are many horses out there that can do both types of jumping, but that is my point: they are two totally different types of riding and are judged based on completely different criteria. Today we'll talk about show hunters. Tomorrow a description of the differences and what makes a good show jumper.

Show hunters are meant to simulate the vintage style of fox hunting, the "gentle person's" sport of the past when ladies rode sidesaddle in long flowing skirts, and men sipped brandy from miniature flasks that tucked neatly into their hunt coat pockets. There is a "politeness" that a judge will look for in a good show hunter, which includes the rider guiding the horse around a courtesy circle before beginning the course of obstacles, all of which should have a natural look to them.

In the ring, a show hunter should canter along at a pleasant pace ~ never rushing, but not sluggish, either ~ and should jump out of it's canter stride effortlessly. They are judged on a combination of things, which include "manners and way of going."

Manners means just that: the horse doesn't chomp at the bit, but rather accepts the riders aids and does as requested. They do not flick their tail, kick out in annoyance, or trot when asked to canter. They are interested in what they are doing, and show this by a keen expression with their ears forward, knees tucked neatly under their chest, and their eyes looking ahead to the next fence.

"Way of going" refers to the length of stride and the ease with which they go over the fences. They should have a touch of the pleasure horse in them, but with a little more spirit and athleticism required. There are five points of jumping an obstacle: Approach, take off, flight, landing, and getaway. The show hunter should leave the ground the same distance from the jump as he or she lands on the other side, and the highest point of the arc should be at the center of the jump. The horse should lift it's forelegs and tuck them squarely under his/her chest, and the topline should have a nice arc from the poll (the knobby spot between the ears on top of the head) to the tail, giving a gentle curved look, like the outline of a football (not sunken, flat or hollow).

A show hunter should never "suck back" when approaching a fence, but should move toward it at a steady, even pace. Neither should they wiggle from side to side, or rush after the landing. A polished show hunter will also switch leads without being asked at the proper place, but this is more often than not something an experienced rider will have to "suggest" at the appropriate time.

Tomorrow we'll delve into what makes a show jumper good, and the differences between the two.

How To Find A Riding School

School is about to start up again, and that means riding stables will be filling their lesson programs with eager students. There are thousands of things that make a riding school good, or not-so-good. In this post I'll only touch on a few important things to look for when "shopping" for a lesson stable (assuming you have already located facilities that teach the kind of riding you want to learn). We'll discuss this more at length in the weeks to come.

* Before anything else, you want to find a lesson program that puts safety first. You are dealing with an animal who weighs ten times what you do (plus or minus), but has a brain about the size of a large walnut (of course there are variables, but I am trying to give you an example). Humans are far more intelligent than horses, and it would be good to understand that. If you approach a horse as the superior being in your own mind, the horse will believe you. And unless he is a reincarnated ax murderer disguised as a pony, he will usually respond to your confidence by being obedient.

* Safety in a lesson program means they will not allow you to ride without an approved safety helmet strapped tightly onto your head.
* It also means they include unmounted Horsemanship Lessons as part of their regular program (to teach you things such as how NOT to get kicked or bitten by your horse!)
* Beginner lessons should always take place in an enclosed ring with a gate that latches, and there should be no more than 6-8 students per professional instructor. For first timers there should be extra help available as well, in the form of Working Students or Instructors in Training.

Never be afraid or feel embarrassed to ask the stable manager any questions. If the manager or instructor isn't interested in your questions, you should not be interested in taking lessons at their facility.

Equine Piroplasmosis (EP) Diagnosis

Florida Agriculture Department announced that a Manatee County horse has been diagnosed with Equine Piroplasmosis (EP) - a disease that the U.S. has been considered free of since 1988. Blood and tissue testing of a seven-year-old gelding that had been euthanized after a three-week illness confirmed the presence of the disease in the animal.

State officials immediately quarantined the farm where the horse lived, as well as two adjacent properties containing horses, pending a determination of their status. An ongoing investigation is being conducted to determine the source of the disease, and whether it has spread beyond the immediate area where the infected animal was housed.

Equine Piroplasmosis (EP) is a blood-borne parasitic disease transmitted to horses by ticks or contaminated needles. The disease was eliminated in the 1980’s, and the tick species believed to transmit EP in other countries have not been identified in Florida in many years. This disease is not directly contagious from one horse to another but requires direct blood transfer. Human infection with equine piroplasmosis is extremely rare.

Acute horses can show signs of depression, fever, anemia, jaundiced (yellow) mucous membranes and low platelet counts. EP can also cause horses to have roughened hair coats, constipation, and colic. In its milder form, the disease causes horses to appear weak and show lack of appetite. Some horses beco chronic carriers of the disease.

Habitat for Horses Needs Your Help!

If your riding stable, or your circle of equestrian friends, are looking for a worthy cause to benefit from fund raising efforts, please consider Habitat for Horses. This is a terrific operation that has done so much for hundreds of discarded and abused horses, it is worth a look.

The folks at Habitat for Horses clearly "get it." They understand horses and work tirelessly to make a difference. They have made a difference, but they need help. Your help. Every little bit counts.

Please click on the title above to view their web site. If you are interested in hosting a benefit to raise funds for horses that need help, please consider this remarkable rescue organization. And if you don't have the slightest clue how to initiate or pull off a fund raiser, please send me a message and I will personally help you lay out a plan based on what is realistic for you.

Helping you host a fund raiser is how I am able to contribute my own time and energy to Habitat for Horses.

Thanks.

Nanci

Horse Girls*

Recently I had an opportunity to visit the riding school I managed for half a dozen years, Columbia Horse Center, located in Laurel, MD. It has been almost three years since I left that farm to write my book, The Tugboat Chronicles. While there I watched the "Changing of The Lessons," as we used to call it. This is the moment when one hour of group lessons ends and another begins.

I don't know most of the kids who take lessons at Columbia anymore. After three years, a whole new group of kids dismount and lead their ponies from the ring. The girls who grew up while I was there are off to college, or have now been riding long enough they no longer take group lesson, only privates.

But I realized that even though I don't know these "new" kids names, I still know them. How? Because "Horse-Girls" are all the same.

Okay, I have to pause to acknowledge the fact that saying "horse-girls" is sexiest, and therefore politically incorrect. I understand that boys ride too. Many of the top riders in our country are men. One of my sons rode for a while, and his best friend, Matthew, will make a career out of his equestrian skills. But for the most part, the boys who do ride horses do so as their sport, not their passion, like the girls. It is different.

The look on a horse-girls face tells it all. Starry eyes shine as they whisper in their favorite pony's ear on the way back to the barn. They notice everything around them, every swish of a tail or stomp of a hoof. I know their parents scratch their heads and ask how it is that their daughter will rise before dawn to clean a horses stall, but cannot keep her room tidy.

Horse-girls will spend hours cleaning and polishing tack and leather boots before a show, then pick dirty clothes up off the floor to wear to school. Horse-girls walls are covered with photos of horses, not rock stars. Broom sticks become make-shift jumps in their back yards, and on any given day a few of them can be seen "cantering" around a course of imaginary jumps.

Horse-girls live and breathe for the moments they can be within a breath of a barn. Their diaries are filled with thoughts about which horse they will ride in their next lesson. They write about how they know their beloved pony arched his neck with pride when the blue ribbon fluttered from his bridle. Carrots and sugar cubes are always on the grocery list, and the smell of a barn intoxicates these girls in a way alcohol never will.

It was this way when I was a child, and it is this way today. I worried about my horse on bitter cold nights, and took hot bran mashes to him each morning. I cared for any horse or pony like other girls cared for their dolls. Every year I got to spend my birthday in NYC with my father at his office. The entire day revolved around the moment when we would enter F.A.O Schwartz and I raced to the toy horse section to pick my gift.

When I took beginner lessons as a child, I couldn't get out of the wood-paneled station wagon fast enough when we pulled into the driveway at Ox Ridge Hunt Club in Darien, CT. In the dusty old office, Miss Townsend stood guard over the clip board which said which pony was mine for one glorious hour. Miss Townsend had known all day which pony I would ride, but she would barely glance up from her typewriter when I ran through the door. Little did I know I would be another version of Miss Townsend when I grew up.

The look in the eyes of these children I saw assured me nothing has changed. They dream my dreams, they wish for red-ribboned ponies on Christmas morning just as I did, and I know if I read their diaries, their words could have been mine.

Their parents who sat behind me (and didn't know my connection to the center), spoke of the same things the parents always talk about with each other during the lessons. The cost of new boots, what pony their child cantered on the first time by mistake (a wonderful skill riding instructors have for reluctant-but-ready students,) the smell of horse that lingers in their cars, and most importantly, I hear them say, "Thank goodness this keeps them out of the malls!"

Horse-girls are horse-girls, no matter the year, no matter the generation, no matter the location. If it is in us, there is no denying it, no turning back. We will forever be "Horse-Girls, and how lucky we are for that!